Eros

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What does Eros mean in Seba's concordance?

Eros is the principle of relation, connection, desire, and psychic binding; in Seba it is not reduced to sexuality or simple feeling.

The page draws from 25 source passages, including Marie-Louise von Franz, James Hillman, Samuels, Andrew, Papadopoulos, Renos K..

Seba places Eros near related terms such as Psyche, Logos, Aphrodite.

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Eros occupies a position of singular complexity in the depth-psychological corpus, functioning simultaneously as cosmogonic principle, archetypal deity, psychological drive, and relational faculty. The Jungian tradition, represented by Jung himself, von Franz, Hillman, Samuels, and Papadopoulos, treats Eros as an archetypal principle of connectedness and relatedness — explicitly distinguished from the feeling function and from sexuality alone, though often confused with both. Jung assigns Eros a ‘feminine’ character in complementary tension with the masculine Logos, a formulation Samuels and Papadopoulos rightly flag as theoretically problematic. Von Franz and Hillman insist on the impersonal, even demonic quality of Eros as cosmic force: lovers can unite without feeling, but feeling without Eros remains a cold affair. Hillman extends this into his mythopoeic reading of the Eros-Psyche tale, where Eros becomes the engine of soul-making through creative wounding, triangulation, and impossible love. Anne Carson’s philological study foregrounds the Greek eros as constitutive lack — desire is defined by the absence of its object — giving the bittersweet paradox its structural necessity. Kerényi anchors Eros in the Platonic genealogy through Poros, while Schoen and Kalsched underscore Eros as a protective and healing principle against archetypal evil and traumatic dissociation. Hillman’s tripartite differentiation into himeros, anteros, and pothos remains the most refined phenomenological cartography in the literature.

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Eros is, as the writings tell us, always universal and impersonal — even inhuman and demonic. Whether as sexual compulsion or as cosmogonic eros holding the universe together, it remains impersonal, a force, not a feeling function.

Von Franz establishes the categorical distinction between Eros as an impersonal, universal archetypal force and feeling as a personal, bounded psychic function, insisting they must not be conflated.

Marie-Louise von Franz, James Hillman, Lectures on Jung’s Typology, 2013thesis

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‘it is the function of Eros to unite what Logos has sundered’ (CW 10, para. 275). Eros and Logos are ‘intuitive concepts’ which ‘mark out a field of experience which it is difficult to define’.

Samuels presents Jung’s foundational formulation of Eros as the unifying feminine principle in dialectical opposition to the masculine Logos, while acknowledging the conceptual difficulties of gendered attribution.

Samuels, Andrew, Jung and the Post-Jungians, 1985thesis

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Jung uses ‘eros’ in a variety of ways. Sometimes he equates eros with sexuality or eroticism… More often, he writes of eros as an archetypal principle of psychological functioning — connectedness, relatedness, harmony and named for Eros the lover of Psyche and son of Aphrodite.

Papadopoulos maps Jung’s inconsistent usage of ‘eros,’ identifying a spectrum from literal sexuality to the archetypal principle of relatedness, and flags the problematic gendering of the concept.

Papadopoulos, Renos K., The Handbook of Jungian Psychology: Theory, Practice and Applications, 2006thesis

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The Greek word eros denotes ‘want,’ ‘lack,’ ‘desire for that which is missing.’ The lover wants what he does not have. ‘Sweetbitter eros’ is what hits the raw film of the lover’s mind.

Carson grounds Eros philologically in constitutive lack, arguing that the bittersweet paradox of erotic desire is structurally inscribed in the Greek word itself.

Carson, Anne, Eros the Bittersweet: An Essay, 1986thesis

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Aphrodite would keep both Psyche and Eros for herself — by keeping them from each other. She not only represents the archetypally antipsychic component in loving, but also she would block the transformation of eros by preventing it from connecting with soul.

Hillman differentiates three constituents of love in the myth — Aphrodite, Eros, Psyche — arguing that Eros must connect with soul to undergo transformation, against Aphrodite’s archetypal resistance.

Hillman, James, The Myth of Analysis: Three Essays in Archetypal Psychology, 1972thesis

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Here are three portions or persons of Eros that have been classically differentiated: himeros or physical desire for the immediately present to be grasped in the heat of the moment; anteros or answering love; and pothos, the longing toward the unattainable.

Hillman offers his most refined phenomenological cartography of Eros, differentiating its three classical aspects — immediate desire, reciprocal love, and idealized longing — as distinct yet interrelated modes.

Hillman, James, A Blue Fire: The Essential James Hillman, 1989thesis

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Is Eros the connecting life principle, a libido that wants unions, as Freud says, and does it pertain more to ‘the feminine’ as Jung says?… Or is Eros a brother of Hades himself, as Schelling said? Myth leaves the definition of Eros in perplexity.

Hillman surveys the radical plurality of Eros across mythological and theoretical traditions, arguing that myth itself refuses a stable definition, including a downward Eros connected to depth and death.

Hillman, James, The Dream and the Underworld, 1979thesis

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Trusting and doubting, yielding and denying, opening and closing, back and forth, are part of the interplay of eros and psyche, each bringing the other into being, from the coyest flirtation of children to the rhythm of opposites in the mysterium coniunctionis.

Hillman identifies the interplay of Eros and Psyche as a dynamic of mutual constitution, where fear and desire together form the creative dialectic underlying both erotic and analytic experience.

Hillman, James, The Myth of Analysis: Three Essays in Archetypal Psychology, 1972supporting

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Some people may have taste, sensitive differentiated feeling with cultural depth, yet be crooks; or be wholly autoerotic, without a touch of eros in the sense of burning involvement, care and love. Or the reverse: one may be all eros, almost a mythical lover, outpouring and compassionate, and yet be wholly out of touch with one’s subjective sense of feeling values.

Von Franz illustrates with concrete examples the dissociation between Eros as archetypal involvement and feeling as discriminating psychic function, demonstrating their empirical independence.

Marie-Louise von Franz, James Hillman, Lectures on Jung’s Typology, 2013supporting

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The arrow falls where it will; we can only follow. Of all forms of impossibility, the arrow strikes us into triangles to such an extraordinary extent that this phenomenon must be examined for its creative role in soul-making.

Hillman argues that the triangular structure of impossible love is not a pathological deviation but an objective necessity of Eros, bearing creative significance for soul-making.

Hillman, James, The Myth of Analysis: Three Essays in Archetypal Psychology, 1972supporting

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Not ‘Know thyself’ through reflection, but ‘Reveal thyself,’ which is the same as the commandment to love, since nowhere are we more revealed than in our loving. Nowhere, too, are we more blind.

Hillman reorients the psychological imperative from Socratic self-knowledge through reflection to self-revelation through Eros, positioning love as the supreme mode of psychic disclosure.

Hillman, James, The Myth of Analysis: Three Essays in Archetypal Psychology, 1972supporting

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In Jung’s letter to Bill W., Eros is ‘the protective wall of human community’ that Jung says ‘can counteract the evil principle [Archetypal Shadow/Archetypal Evil] prevailing in this world.’

Schoen draws on Jung’s direct formulation of Eros as communal protection against archetypal evil, demonstrating the concept’s ethical and therapeutic dimensions within Jungian thought.

Schoen, David E., The War of the Gods in Addiction: C.G. Jung, Alcoholics Anonymous and Archetypal Evil, 2020supporting

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The slow sacralization of the ego in our story can be seen in the way Eros ‘cooperates’ with reality by letting the sisters in. He foresees the consequences of this intrusion, but lets it happen. This is an image of his continuing self-sacrifice in the interest of an ultimate rela

Kalsched reads Eros’s self-sacrifice in the Psyche myth as an image of ego sacralization, locating in the figure of Eros the willingness to accept wounding as the condition for genuine relationship.

Kalsched, Donald, The Inner World of Trauma: Archetypal Defences of the Personal Spirit, 1996supporting

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Love that leads to psyche is not bound by human concerns and conditions. It is both active and receptive. It comes into life as a grace, so that, like Psyche of the tale, one has a relationship to love itself.

Hillman characterizes Eros as an unconditional grace that exceeds human moral categories, arguing that the soul’s proper relationship is not to a beloved person but to love itself as an archetypal force.

Hillman, James, A Blue Fire: The Essential James Hillman, 1989supporting

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If Eros is a reality — and for Plato he is, as he is for anyone who has experienced him — then Poros, who has the positive qualities of Eros, is even more so.

Kerényi affirms Eros’s ontological reality via the Platonic genealogy, situating Poros as the more primordial cosmic ground of which Eros inherits the positive qualities.

Kerényi, Karl, Hermes Guide of Souls, 1944supporting

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Eros’ wings mark a critical difference between gods and men, for they defy human expression. Our words are too small, our rhythms too restrictive. But the true meaning of desire eludes our mortal grasp.

Carson argues that Eros in his divine form — as Pteros, the winged one — exceeds the capacity of human language and poetic form, making the full apprehension of desire constitutively inaccessible to mortals.

Carson, Anne, Eros the Bittersweet: An Essay, 1986supporting

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We know from practice that love and sexuality are not identical. There is an eros, wrongly called Platonic, that omits the sexual, just as there is a sexuality without eros. They can go their separate ways, usually to the detriment of both.

Hillman insists on the empirical distinction between Eros and sexuality, arguing that their dissociation — in either direction — damages both the erotic and the sexual dimensions of experience.

Hillman, James, The Myth of Analysis: Three Essays in Archetypal Psychology, 1972supporting

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That which transforms entropic chaos into deterministic chaos is fractal both in dimension and in structural and dynamic self-similarity across scale… Eros is both immortal and able to participate in mortal activities, perhaps the epitome of fractal dimension.

Ulanov reads Eros’s position in the Psyche myth as structurally liminal — occupying a fractal dimension between immortal and mortal, order and chaos — making him the mediating agent of transformation.

Ulanov, Ann Belford, The Feminine in Jungian Psychology and in Christian Theology, 1971supporting

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A further movement toward the side of Eros… forebodes many adventurous possibilities… the vision opens onto a sunny garden, whose red blooming trees represent a development of erotic feeling… the development of Eros also means a source of knowledge.

In the Red Book, Jung presents the development of Eros as simultaneously an expansion of feeling and a source of Logos-cognition, dissolving the strict opposition between the two principles.

Jung, Carl Gustav, The Red Book: Liber Novus, 2009supporting

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The contrast between the clean stripling Eros and the hirsute awkwardness of rustic paunchy Pan, with victory to Eros, was moralized to show the betterment of love to sex, refinement to rape, feeling to passion.

Hillman examines the traditional opposition of Eros and Pan to contest the moralizing allegory of love over sex, proposing instead a genuine contention between two autonomous psychic dominants.

Hillman, James; Roscher, Wilhelm Heinrich, Pan and the Nightmare, 1972supporting

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The whole of it includes my himeros, my desire toward you… my pothos, that yearning, needing, longing on your account, and my need for your anteros, your answering love in return.

Hillman voices the analytic situation through the classical tripartite grammar of Eros — himeros, pothos, anteros — demonstrating that the therapeutic relationship is itself structured by erotic longing.

Hillman, James, The Myth of Analysis: Three Essays in Archetypal Psychology, 1972supporting

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That miserly and mortal sōphrosynē (256e) by which Lysias measures out his erotic experience is a tactic of defense against the change of self that eros imposes. Change is risk.

Carson reads Platonic sōphrosynē as a defensive strategy against the self-transforming force of Eros, arguing that the god’s entry necessarily imposes a loss of familiar selfhood as the price of erotic access.

Carson, Anne, Eros the Bittersweet: An Essay, 1986supporting

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Despite these distinctions between eros and psyche and a characterization of psyche apart from eros, there remain of course the ladies of pleasure who pay their sensuous call in our dreams. They seem erotic in themselves, thus giving phenomenological ground to the notion of anima as eros.

Hillman acknowledges but resists the conflation of anima with Eros, distinguishing Venus phenomenology from the soul-function proper while conceding that dream figures provide phenomenological grounds for the association.

Hillman, James, Anima: An Anatomy of a Personified Notion, 1985aside

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To touch stickiness is to risk diluting myself into viscosity. Stickiness is clinging, like a too possessive dog.

Carson draws on Sartre’s phenomenology of viscosity to illuminate the ancient ambivalence toward erotic merging — the dissolution of self-boundaries as simultaneously seductive and threatening.

Carson, Anne, Eros the Bittersweet: An Essay, 1986aside

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