When an analyst (or husband, lover, disciple, or friend) attempts to meet the requirements of a paranoid relationship, by giving assurances of loyalty, by ruling out treachery, he is moving surely away from love. For as we have seen and shall come to again, love and treachery come from the same left side.
Hillman argues that treachery and love are structurally co-originate, such that any attempt to expunge treachery from intimate relationship actually moves away from love rather than toward it.
, Senex & Puer, 2015thesis