stress doesn’t come from the outside world. You construct it. Some stress is positive, like the challenge of learning a new subject in school. Some is negative but tolerable… And some is toxic, like the chronic stress of prolonged poverty, abuse, or loneliness.
Barrett argues that stress is not an external event but a constructed state, existing on a spectrum from positive to toxic, rooted in the same predictive, body-budget processes that generate emotion.
, How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain, 2017thesis