infant arousal regulation is first performed by the responsive mother, then acquired by the infant. The psychobiological regulation of the ambulatory child’s arousal level by the mother…is thus instrumental to the development of self-regulat
Schore establishes that arousal regulation originates as an intersubjective, dyadic process before it is internalized as autonomous self-regulation, making maternal attunement the ontogenetic scaffold for all later regulatory capacity.
, Affect Regulation and the Origin of the Self: The Neurobiology of Emotional Development, 1994thesis