The negative elementary character, however, appears in a projective ring of symbols, which do not, like those of the positive elementary character, spring from the visible mother-child relationship. The negative side of the elementary character originates rather in inner experience, and the anguish, horror, and fear of danger that the Archetypal Feminine signifies cannot be derived from any actual and evident attributes of woman.
— Erich Neumann
Neumann is making a precise claim here, and it is easy to miss how radical it is. The devouring, annihilating, terrible mother cannot be reduced to memory — to the harsh nurse, the cold parent, the mother who failed to hold. Those biographical figures are real, and they do damage, but they do not account for the full weight of what the psyche brings to this imagery. The horror exceeds any origin story you can construct.
This matters because the therapeutic reflex is almost always to trace the wound back to its source — to find the woman who generated the fear, name her, and thereby diminish the archetype to a case history. But the anguish Neumann points at is not a record of something that happened. It arises, as he says, from inner experience: from the soul's encounter with a dimension of the feminine that belongs to the structure of psychic life, not to biographical accident.
What follows from this is uncomfortable. You cannot metabolize the negative Great Mother by understanding your mother better, or by forgiving her, or by grieving what you did not receive. The archetype does not dissolve into the personal. It has its own force, its own figures, its own claims on the imagination — and the work of meeting it begins precisely where the explanatory story runs out.
Erich Neumann·The Great Mother: An Analysis of the Archetype·1955