Wolves are good at relationships. Anyone who has observed wolves sees how deeply they bond. Mates are most often for life. Even though they clash, even though there is dissension, their bonds carry them over and through harsh winters, plentiful springs, long walks, new offspring, old predators, tribal dances, and group sings.
Estés invokes field-observable wolf pair-bonding and pack cohesion as the ethological model for the Life/Death/Life nature of authentic human love relationships.
, Women Who Run With the Wolves Myths and Stories of the Wild, 2017thesis