After the middle of life, however, permanent loss of the anima means a diminution of vitality, of flexibility, and of human kindness. The result, as a rule, is premature rigidity, crustiness, stereotypy, fanatical one-sidedness, obstinacy, pedantry, or else resignation, weariness, sloppiness, irresponsibility, and finally a childish ramollissement with a tendency to alcohol. After middle life, therefore, the connection with the archetypal sphere of experience should if possible be re-established.
— James Hillman
This passage is Jung's, quoted by Hillman — and the quotation itself is a diagnostic act. What gets catalogued here under "premature rigidity, crustiness, stereotypy" on one side, and "sloppiness, irresponsibility, childish ramollissement" on the other, are not simply failure modes. They are the two directions a soul takes when the animating tension finally snaps: armoring or dissolving. Neither is chosen. Both are what happens when the connection to the deeper-than-personal sphere of experience has been quietly severing for years before the break becomes visible.
The alcohol mention is not incidental. Hillman cites it, and the citation holds: what the soul reaches for when anima is lost is something that restores — briefly, chemically — the very quality of animation that left. The desire logic underneath this is exact: if I can feel it again, even artificially, the loss will not be real. That the feeling does not hold is precisely the disclosure, the place where the soul's actual condition surfaces.
What Jung is pointing at with "re-establishing connection" is less a recommendation than an observation about what the second half of life is structured to demand. The anima does not wait indefinitely. She finds other means of making herself known — in symptoms, in projections, in the rigidity that is sometimes just frozen grief for what has gone unmet.
James Hillman·Anima: An Anatomy of a Personified Notion·1985