Ego/Self dialogue or individuation. In this state of affairs the ego does indeed experience itself as the creature of a creator Selfone that must be given constant attention and connection but must also not be confined to any single creed. It is rather individual, personal experience that leads to the awareness that the ego is the creature of a transpersonal creator. It is only in this third mode of being that Jung's statement applies, "The_e € creature changes the creator." It is only in this third mode 1 real encounter takes place between the creature and the creator, because only out of this religious position can a genuine dialogue occur.
— Edward F. Edinger
Edinger is describing the hardest position the ego can occupy — neither inflated by unconscious identification with the Self nor collapsed in abasement before it, but standing in genuine relation to a force that exceeds it. Most religious psychology stays in the second mode: the ego humbled, grateful, obedient, offering devotion. That mode is deeply familiar; it is the grammar of almost every tradition's formal practice. The difficulty with it is not that it lacks authenticity but that it forecloses dialogue. You cannot argue with what you prostrate before.
What Edinger sees in Jung's *Answer to Job* is that the third mode requires something the devotional posture cannot provide — the ego's willingness to hold its ground, to say what it has witnessed, to feed back. "The creature changes the creator" is not a piece of metaphysical flattery. It describes a mutual dependency that makes the spiritual register genuinely uncomfortable: the divine, in Jung's reading, needs the ego's consciousness to complete something in itself. That need reverses the usual current. If you dissolve into the Self, nothing changes for the Self. Only a creature with sufficient weight — with accumulated suffering and actual encounter — produces the friction that the third mode requires. Devotion without that weight is not the same thing as relation.
Edward F. Edinger·Transformation of the God-Image: An Elucidation of Jung's Answer to Job·1992