Toni Herbine-Blank
IFS CertifiedMS, RN, C-SP
Durango, CO, United States
About
Toni Herbine-Blank, MS, RN, C-SP, has been in private psychotherapy practice since 1996, specializing in the treatment of couples and individuals. She is a Senior Lead Trainer for the IFS Institute and developer of the Intimacy from the Inside Out (IFIO) curriculum for couples therapists. In 2009, after designing a training for IFS therapists to apply the model to couples therapy, she offered the first IFIO Training Program in Boston, Massachusetts. She co-designed the IFS Level 1 and Level 2 curricula and co-authored the IFS Couple Therapy Skills Manual with Martha Sweezy. She also co-authored the book Intimacy from the Inside Out: Courage and Compassion in Couple Therapy. She lives in Hesperus/Durango, Colorado with her husband Jordan. Her approach integrates psychodynamic theory, systems thinking, and neuroscience with IFS, emphasizing self-compassion, internal attachment repair, and staying connected through relational rupture.
Clinical Orientation
Integrates psychodynamic theory, systems thinking, and neuroscience with IFS. Creator of Intimacy from the Inside Out (IFIO), a model that works with internal attachment systems in couples — essentially depth psychology applied to relational healing. Emphasizes self-compassion, internal attachment repair, and staying connected through relational rupture.
Details
Education & Training
- University of Pennsylvania (Family Therapy training)
- IFS Institute Senior Lead Trainer
- Clinical Specialist Psychotherapist (C-SP)
- IFIO curriculum designer for IFS Levels 1 and 2
- Creator of Intimacy from the Inside Out (IFIO) couples therapy model
Certifications
- IFS Senior Lead Trainer
- Clinical Specialist Psychotherapist
Best for
- Couples therapy
- Relational trauma
- Attachment repair
- Internal systems work in relationships
Publications
- Intimacy from the Inside Out: Courage and Compassion in Couple Therapy (co-author)
- Internal Family Systems Couple Therapy Skills Manual (co-author with Sweezy)