there is in the individuation processes of almost everyone at least a one-time and significant theft. Some people characterize it as a theft of their ‘great opportunity’ in life. Others define it as a larceny of love, or a robbing of one’s spirit, a weakening of the sense of self.
Estés establishes theft of the soul-resource — opportunity, love, spirit — as a near-universal structural moment in individuation, arriving from the blind side and fracturing the sealskin of wildish identity.
, Women Who Run With the Wolves Myths and Stories of the Wild, 2017thesis