This piece of the parental fallacy, with all its accompanying jargon about bad double-binding mothers or seductive smothering mothers, and also about absent or possessive and punitive fathers, so rules the explanations of eminence that its jargon determines the way we tell the stories of our own lives.
Hillman argues that the parental fallacy exemplifies the retrospective error par excellence — reading the adult’s character causally backward into parental influence, displacing the daimonic account of calling.
, The Soul’s Code: In Search of Character and Calling, 1996thesis