The referencing of reunions thus involve not just an orientation, but also a recalibration of the arousal level produced by the toddler’s plastic, developing nervous system against the reference standard of the mo
Schore argues that caregiver-infant reunion is the prototype of psychophysiological recalibration, in which the child’s arousal level is actively reset against the regulatory standard of the attuned maternal system.
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