The aged Priam, weak, old, heavy with grief, will venture forth to ransom Hector’s body… Priam approaches Achilles; he clasps his knees and kisses ‘his hands, the terrible man-slaying hand which had killed so many of his sons’
Sullivan argues that Priam’s ransoming mission constitutes the poem’s supreme expression of arete as courage, enacted through love and grief rather than martial strength, displacing Achilles as the ethical center of the poem’s final movement.
, Psychological and Ethical Ideas What Early Greeks Say, 1995thesis