Polarization, which is conflict between protectors, leaves the raw, hurting exiles in each person unattended. Since these parents don’t have the Self-leadership yet to become the primary caretakers of their own exiles, their protectors may recruit others for caretaking
Schwartz defines polarization formally as conflict between protectors and shows how it perpetuates systemic dysfunction by leaving exiles unaddressed and drawing external parties into compensatory caretaking roles.
, Internal Family Systems Therapy, 1995thesis