What is a paradox? A paradox is a kind of thinking that reaches out but never arrives at the end of its thought. Each time it reaches out, there is a shift of distance in mid-reasoning that prevents the answer from being grasped.
Carson defines paradox as the structural logic of eros and desire — an infinite, self-frustrating reach that is constitutive rather than correctable.
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