Mentalization is the capacity to make sense of each other and ourselves, implicitly and explicitly, in terms of subjective states and mental processes. Understanding other people’s behavior in terms of their likely thoughts, feelings, wishes and desires is a major developmental achievement that, we believe, biologically originates in the context of the attachment relationship.
Herman cites Fonagy and Bateman’s canonical definition of mentalization and documents its clinical application as a three-year treatment programme with demonstrated efficacy for borderline personality disorder.
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