Is melting a good thing? That remains ambivalent. The image implies something sensually delicious, yet anxiety and confusion often attend it. Viscosity is an experience that repels in its own right
Carson establishes melting as the central ambivalent figure of erotic experience, simultaneously seductive and threatening to the ego’s boundary-integrity, drawing on Sartre’s phenomenology of stickiness.
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