Appeal to the lot of others is a frequent recipe in consolation... By inviting him to find three subjects who had suffered nothing similar, he conveyed the message, 'You are not the only one'.
Sorabji identifies 'the lot of others' as a formal consolatory technique in ancient philosophy, whereby shared suffering is made visible to dissolve the isolation of private grief.
, Emotion and Peace of Mind: From Stoic Agitation to Christian Temptation, 2000thesis