Narcissistic development proceeds along its own separate pathway, in the same way as object relations are conceived of as having a distinct path of development… a ‘mirroring’ self-object, usually the mother, allows an unfolding and expression of a baby’s ‘exhibitionism’ and ‘grandiosity’.
Samuels expounds Kohut’s developmental schema of narcissism, foregrounding mirroring self-objects and optimal frustration as the structural core of self-formation.
, Jung and the Post-Jungians, 1985thesis