both the principle of love (chesed), and the power of restraint (gevurah), are required. At one level they are opposites, but, at another, each is vitally needed for the fulfilment of the other.
McGilchrist argues that Gevurah, as the power of restraint, is cosmologically co-equal with Chesed, and that only their tension and complementarity — one dividing, the other uniting — makes finite creation possible.
, The Matter with Things: Our Brains, Our Delusions, and the Unmaking of the World, 2021thesis