Fordham reserves the term splitting for disintegrative experiences that are pathological and threaten to overwhelm the infant or adult. He preferred instead the idea of deintegration and reintegration to describe the dynamic process whereby the primary self reac
This passage articulates Fordham’s defining terminological and conceptual distinction: deintegration-reintegration names the healthy, cyclical developmental process of the primary self, in explicit contrast to Kleinian splitting, which denotes pathological fragmentation.
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