the ego’s first decisive meeting with the Self brings about a painful humiliation and demoralizing sense of defeat. As Jung puts it in another place, ‘The experience of the self is always a defeat for the ego.’
Edinger transmits Jung’s axiomatic claim that individuation structurally requires the ego’s defeat before the Self, framing this humiliation as the essential phenomenology of the encounter with the Greater Personality.
, Science of the Soul: A Jungian Perspective, 2002thesis