‘Icarus, my son,’ said Daedalus, ‘I charge you to keep at a moderate height, for if you fly too low the damp will clog your wings, and if too high the heat will melt them. Keep near me and you will be safe.’
Dayton uses Daedalus’s warning to Icarus as a paradigm for the impossible transmission of paternal wisdom to a son whose excitement and drive toward transcendence overwhelms the counsel of moderation.
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