our brutal inner critic isn’t merely grandmother’s internalized critical voice that we need to drown out or expel. Instead, it’s an 8-year-old who is using Grandmother’s shaming voice, image, and energy in a desperate attempt to prevent further injury.
Schwartz argues that the inner critic is a burdened protective part — a frightened child wielding internalized shame — not an intrinsic defect to be eliminated.
, Internal Family Systems Therapy, 1995thesis