we can hardly consider such a dream as his own property; it would be his wife’s just as much. His psychology is in her as hers is in him, and every dream that each one has is more or less an expression of that relatedness.
Jung’s seminal formulation that intimate psychological relatedness dissolves dream ownership, rendering the dream a conjoint product of two interpenetrating psychologies rather than a private possession.
, Dream Analysis: Notes of the Seminar Given in 1928-1930, 1984thesis